Future memories of regret

Once, a very long time ago, I was told to do something greatly instructional but which I hated.  I remember little of it now other than feeling left out when the others could skateboard and I could not.  I was clumsy, fat, and not part of the crew.  I was advised it was worthwhile so when the time came again I stepped forth and did it again, much to the surprise of others who knew I hated it.  Many years later when in a similar situation I realised the value could only be attained when embracing the situation, duty is not a good learning tool.  Today I wondered: how can I ensure I enjoy this situation which I find challenging so I do not, in years to come, just regret the lost opportunity.

October 24
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