There is this tricky problem that I haven't solved again this year, perhaps I should set it as my task for solving it next year. The problem of being cheerful and happy together after the interjection. The interjection that throws everything off kilter, a little, off balance because my reaction and yours are so different. The best I have done so far is pretending it doesn't matter until it doesn't. Fake it till you make it, but faking it can be so tiring.