Myths schmyths

There should be more aspirational tales for the sideman, the beta, the supporting actor.  It is a role that many can hope for, but when they have it do they want it or the top dog alpha role because that is what the myth says we should want. Myths schmyths.

I don't seem to be able to get a clear description flowing in my head about this dirty old man malarky, surely it is easy to recognise sexiness without being a DOM, to be able to call it and, perhaps, not rush home to masturbate, as wanking is just an ineffectual cure for an empty core.

The secret
What is this normal, what do I want this normal to be? This emptiness that may be the gap...