You said shall we do this exciting thing, we always used to do these exciting things but of late I have become a bit jaded with the particular things we used to do. A bit bored, a bit restless, a bit distracted, so I haven't put in the work to find the best of the things, and I didn't want to repeat things just for the sake of not doing nothing. It worked out today as we had a little drink and a long chat, but I must find new things because next time it might not work out as easily.