Shouting the loudest
Then I remembered I had just written a note about being stuck, not knowing which way to turn. But this is a different kind of stuck, I have to analyse in a straightforward list of pros and cons, benefits and irritants and the analyses has to be done for so many possible scenarios between all in and all out. There is in but limited, in but restricted, out but with visiting rights, but it feels to me that before any of these potential scenarios I have to be certain of conversation in which we all try to understand the other's position rather than all try to put our own point across. Nothing is gained by shouting the loudest.
