Today my words seemed to have effect because they were said when they were said. Timing. I had through the thoughts earlier in the week, I had thought scenarios in which I could say the words, crowbar them into the conversation, but I am glad I didn't find the way as saying the words at the right time seemed to be as important as choosing the right words to describe the feeling. I guess timing is not just the thing for standup comedians (where the timing is usually just quick responses), or for plot developments in films and books, but timing is also part of our everyday life.