I guess that is the way it usually happens. One person does something, some action, some decision, that they think is fine but the other is put out by it, or angered by it. Or worse. The other, in this case, does not say immediately, but takes a while and then, later, the next day when parting, when there is no point of comeback, then the other says something cutting. And the one is used to this, the one waits for things to settle. But perhaps all of this is a bad ritual.
Procrastination and crisis
Is procrastination and crisis a good,...